Thursday, January 8, 2009

GREAT Grandpa Bloomer

James Robert Bloomer
September 4th, 1913 - December 31st, 2008



My Papa died on New Years Eve. He was born in Indiana in 1913 to Floy and Robert Bloomer. His mother died when he was 18 months old and his father died when he was 8 from Tuberculous. He grew up with his grandma and grandpa Bloomer and joined the navy to serve on the USS Arizona. He married my grandmother after they met at a dance in Southern California and I remember my grandmother telling me she knew he was the one because she "felt so safe in his arms." They had two children, my father and my aunt Linda who died a few years before my grandmother did. He was a Los Angles Fire Fighter at station 48 in Harbor, California. He and my grandmother loved to fish and would send many a' summers at the Clamith River in Northern California. He loved his suburban that this last summer I caught him sitting in on my parents property in Utah. He told me he paid $5,000.00 for it and it had been such a joy to own it with my grandma.




This is probably the closest person that I have had pass away. He drove himself to the hospital on Dec. 18th and never left. Yes that is right, drove. Papa lived by himself and drove up until two weeks of his death. He even had a girl friend that he would take to a local Chines restaurant and to the monthly pot luck. This sums up the last few years of his life. He would visit my parents in Utah, dated, and walked around his block all the time. He never missed a doctors appointment, probably because he loved to socialize. He was such a great example of loving life right up to 95.


But I must say we sent him off in style. He had the navy honor him and station 48 in Los Angles sent a rig to his grave side funeral. My sisters and I got a bag piper to come and play amazing grace, one of his favorite songs. It was more a present for my grandma and grandpa.





I felt a great sense of loss as I spent the weekend in California. All of the Christmases spent at their home, all the hugs and kisses they would give us are now memories that my children wont know. As we cleaned their home out, my grandmother left notes in everything important. Like Great, great grandma and grandpa Bloomer's silver tea cup given to them on their 25th wedding anniversary in 1904. Many more notes were found and made me think of how special grandma really was. I came home and pined notes on the things that were important to me in my life. Even if I never keep a journal, I will remember how my grandparents left a legacy of love, frugality, charity, and were always thinking of others. Why else would you leave notes for others to find when you weren't going to be there to tell them? I hope on the night of New Years Eve my grandfather knew just how loved he was when he was reunited with a mother he never knew, a father he last saw 88 years ago, a wife he loved for 67 years, and a multitude of heavenly hosts that were so happy to see him once again. I hope that when I die that I am as loved and honored as my grandfather was.





My grandparents weren't Mormon, but my father is a great genealogist. After walking through my grandparents home this weekend and realizing how important their family was to them, I thought of my father who is blessed with the spirit of Elijah and the thousands of families he has strung together in heaven, and how greatful they are, for how this one posterity created an enteral chain that will never be broken. Because of him they all dwell together right now and enjoy the blessings of the gospel they never had on earth.


11 comments:

Stacy Risenmay said...

I didn't even know him and I was tearing up reading your post! He sounds like a wonderful man. Aren't we lucky to know what we know about eternity?
I am glad you had a good Christmas!

Buck and Julie said...

Ditto to the tearing up! What a special time that must have been. You are so lucky to have had such a great example in your life. I am glad to be friends with you!!!

Audra M said...

Wnat's a triple ditto? I too have wonderful grandparents - just blogged about them the other day myself. I'm sure your hurting/missing him some. Hope you are all doing well. Actually, I'm going to call you now.

Diana said...

Ashlee, that was so beautifully written. It was great to hear your side to the experience. I was informed of the great loss by Grandma Suker. I'm grateful you shared so many personal details. It really helps us think about those things and moments that we should write about. Thanks for sharing.

Becca's Blog said...

Ash,
You are something special you know that. What a wonderful tribute you paid to your Grandpa and Grandma and what a wonderful testimony of eternal life with our families. That hope is what carries me from day to day. I have no doubt you will be loved and honored as much as your Grandpa. It looked like a wonderful service. I love the bag pipes. I love you Ah!

Cherilyn said...

What a beautiful writing about Grandpa and Grandma. I hope you don't mind but I'm going to post it on my blog so I will have it for my journal. You said in words what I felt but couldn't express. What a wonderful family you have and how lucky I am to be a part of it! Just a side note - I thought Linda died just 6 months prior to Grandma. Maybe I have the dates wrong but I just thought I'd mention it.

Cherilyn said...

Ash- I forgot to ask if you got a picture of him in the Suburban. What a sweet moment that you caught. I can just envision it. I remember driving that to work in Provo when Jim and I lived in the little brick house on the farm.

leslie said...

Ashley
I loved reading about Grandpa Bloomer. I remember him and Grandma well. They were wonderful. Where does the time go? I remember when you were born! I am so proud of the way you have grown up. You have a beautiful family. It has been a privilage to know the Bloomers these past 38 years (your mother is still one of my closest friends) I enjoyed reading your comments. Thanks
Love, Leslie Borgquist

Colette said...

So sorry to hear about your loss. I've been away from the blogging world for a couple of weeks it seems, so I just read about it tonight. The one thing that gives me comfort is knowing that their are so many good people on the other side that I can't wait to see, that dying is no longer a scary thing to me. Hope your family is all doing well.

Kim and Dustin Mayhew said...

Hi Ashlee, I ran across your blog today and thought I would say hi. Last time I saw you, you were pregnant. Was is really that long ago? Has your baby already grown up? We moved to Richmond about a year ago so I miss running into you at church when you're visiting your parents. How is everything? I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your grandpa, from what I read, it sounds like he was an amazing man!! Well, hope you don't mind if I peak in once in a while to see what you're up to. If you'd like to visit my blog, then just send me your email address. kmayhew@ihc.com

Jaime said...

I was so sad to hear about Grandpa. He is such a sweet man and it has always been fun to see him during the holidays and memorable occasions for your family. He is wonderful!